Thursday 1 May 2014

How to make Chinese woman yours to keep.

    



 How do you attract an Asian woman if you're an Asian or not? The principles of attracting women in general are important during any courtship - and making sweeping generalizations about people based on race isn't likely to get you very far, in the dating world or elsewhere. Be genuine, and put your best foot forward to help you attract your ideal lady.


Steps
  1. Stay humble. You may be a confident guy, and many women are attracted to alpha males. But when it comes down to it, nobody likes it when others act superior around them. Tone down that cockiness to attack a partner, and focus on her instead of yourself.
     
  2. Always be busy and have cool activities around the clock. Being industrious and hard working is traditionally appreciated in Asian cultures, and beyond that is generally impressive for all people. When the lady you're interested in sees you're always on the go, she will find it intriguing.
  3. Get to know her friends and loved ones. Be open to stepping into her circle and getting to know her family and friends. Be polite and open with them, and show her that you can be an asset to her social circle as well as a potential romantic partner.
  4. Learn about her culture - respectfully. Don't assume that a woman of Asian descent adheres to certain cultural traditions; having Asian heritage doesn't mean that she conforms to particular stereotypes or even embraces particular traditions. If there are aspects to her habits, lifestyle, or culture that you're not familiar with, ask her about them in an interested, supportive, and respectful way - get to know what matters to her.
    • It's also important to read her cues if she doesn't want to delve into discussing her heritage. Just because someone has a particular ancestry doesn't mean they feel a deep connection to that country's traditions (ancient or modern-day). Your potential partner may feel much more connected to the culture of her current nation of residence than her nation of ethnicity or heritage.
  5.  Don't be pushy or overaggressive. You have to build intrigue and encourage your potential partner to come to you. Be available, but don't be pushy or off-puttingly needy. Be confident and relaxed.
  6. Be wary of public displays of affection. You don't want to assume that she'll be completely okay with PDA; this holds true for all women, of any culture - follow her cues. When you flirt with her maybe a quick nudge or hug is okay, but don't make her uncomfortable by being too forward. Again, be chill, relaxed, and appealing, in an effort to encourage her to reach out to you.

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